{"id":1282,"date":"2023-12-29T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-29T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/trulyclaire.com\/test\/?p=1282"},"modified":"2023-12-26T17:10:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-26T23:10:21","slug":"reflection-on-2023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trulyclaire.com\/test\/reflection-on-2023\/","title":{"rendered":"Reflections on 2023"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When I think of how 2023 started and how it ended the word that comes to me louder than all others is \u201crelieved\u201d. This year found me in flux in so many different ways and, despite how the changes first appeared, all ended up being for the absolute very best. This was the year that I put letting shit go into extreme practice and things have just kind of worked themselves out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I moved to Dallas, TX in the Summer of 2022 I had intention to live a bit selfishly, try new things, challenge my comfort zone, and strive to be the version of me that I liked best. I celebrated my first year in Dallas with new friends and a sense of self assurance that I haven\u2019t felt in a long time\u2026and when I think about it not like I\u2019ve ever really felt before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"after-the-dark\">After the Dark<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Along the way there have been upsets. The first three months of 2023 were like a raging storm of frustration and disappointment. The budding romance that I was excited for soured and then ended without a word. The old apartment I had turned out to be filled with black mold and my car was stolen around the time the mold was discovered. Shortly thereafter I lost the job that I thought would be a safe space for me to grow and then lost out finalizing the purchase of the 1970 Chevy Monte Carlo of my dreams because suddenly I was unemployed. Finally, I experienced a friendship breakup that devasted me. All of those disappointing things eventually led to much, much better things. Had I not experienced what I did, I may not have had the blessings that were fast coming my way that would replace them . I didn\u2019t stay in the dark long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"comes-the-light\">Comes the Light<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Before my health insurance ended with my old employer, I leveled up Dayjob\u2122 by changing industries and increasing my base salary by nearly $20K and working at much more balanced pace. I restarted my beloved <a href=\"http:\/\/offcultured.com\">offcultured<\/a> with my friends, restarted this blog, traveled to New York with friends (who won the trip through a sweepstakes!), surprised my goddaughter on her 7th birthday, met incredible women who have become the dearest of friends, saw the spark of love I have for fashion and personal style return to a blazing fire, and found a new apartment that suits me better than I could have imagined. Fingers crossed, no black mold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t get another shot at the Monte Carlo and I haven\u2019t had the promise of a new romance show up quite yet, but all those things in their time if at all. What matters more than what I\u2019ve lost is what I gained. I have peace and love in abundance. I have rest. Oh how I have rested these last nine months; healing from burnout and the frustrations and disappointments that built up over the past few years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"lessons-learned-along-the-way\">Lessons Learned Along the Way<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve learned so much about myself this year and that, dear reader, was the whole point in taking a chance on myself. Trusting my decisions, learning to embrace what my feelings were telling me, and enjoying what I have achieved so far. Looking to the future, I know that I can handle it. I have been the luckiest woman this year and I don\u2019t take that for granted. 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